Nothing Ordinary About this "Man"

Ruben has a new profile and a new BBM pin:

Hey there, Im not going to be on sites anymore. If you are interested...invite me on BBM: - 7FD086F5

Hit him up ladies - tell him what you think! It's free an anonymous! :)

A quick update on project "Exposing Ruben..."

Mr. Ruben de Lange has now stepped up his campaign of intimidation against two women who have been in contact with me regarding their dealings with him. It seems the heat is getting to him as he has started to delete his profiles off several sites and he's lashing out at everyone. Luckily his attacks have been limited to ranting on whatsapp and threatening to post their photos on facebook - big man behind small screen! They have not become physical which just goes to show what a coward he is!

Ladies please come forward with any information that will help us find his physical address. What we know so far:

1. He is looking for work and therefore most likely unemployed (which explains why he is harassing people all hours of the night and day)
2. He lives in the Boksburg area - most likely with his mother and 4 yr old daughter.
3. His ID number is 8204065013088
4. He uses the following cell phone numbers but does not answer calls so they are most likely data only numbers - 074 158 5869 / 073 495 7090
5. According to RICA the numbers are pay-as-you-go belonging to women who are not related to him.

If you have met this man and can offer us any information that will help us shut him down, please mail me. Please share this page on all the social networks.

Love and light <3
Nixx

The Monster has a Name...

Thank you "DeepThroatInformant83" for the following link. Seems he is looking for a job at the moment - wonder how good this is going to look on his resume?

Source: http://www.linkedin.com/pub/ruben-de-lange/a3/688/5b2

"Passionate, Hardworking, Committed, Loyal. Everyone can say that about themselves - Even have a 15page Resume.. But it means nothing when its just one paper....
The only way you will know if you have made the right decision, is when you give me a chance to prove that which is on paper." 

- Ruben de Lange 

Rachel's Story

Received this account of Ruben's behaviour by email this morning.

Rachel* Writes:

I was approached in a very similar way by this guy on the Skout app on 17 Dec 2014. He was very friendly and seemed to be a genuinely nice guy. We chatted on WhatsApp for a couple of days. I was sent the same 4 pictures of himself.

Over the few days that we were chatting, he sent me some very explicit photos of himself (I am assuming) wanting me to return the favour, blocking me for a day when I didn't want to, then messaging me again. After being pestered for about a week about it, I relented, and sent two risque but tasteful pictures back.

He then began to ask very strange questions about if I wanted to be part of a "couple" and go to parties (I can only assume they were swingers parties, from the way he was chatting). I refused, and said it was not my type of thing. Again he blocked me and then unblocked me the next day. He became very obsessive after that, sending me 10 - 15 messages at a time, and if I didn't reply straight away he got quite aggressive.

I was out of the area at family over the Christmas period. He had wanted to meet up, but I had to decline. He then got very aggressive towards me. i tried to reason with him and said that it was the festive season and had had the plans for weeks before I had even met him on the chat app. He then proceeded to threaten to post the two pictures I had sent him all over the internet because I was just messing with him. After he had threatened me a couple of times, he then blocked me, and I did the same.

Thank you for sharing your experience. Ladies please email me your experiences. Your name will be changed to protect you.

Known Aliases & Hunting grounds

Real Name:

• Ruben de Lange

Known Aliases:

• DomMasterBull (hahahah... sorry!)
• Interman
• QuasiDude
• QuasiDaDude
• DaDude
• TryMe
• Commander
• TAC

Known websites/apps where he has or had a profile:

• Swinging Heaven
• Kiwi Klub
• Sexy Club
• Bmax
• Cherry Lounge
• Skout App
• Facebook

If you have come across this person on other sites, please email me details. Any information you can share will help us put a stop to his games.

The Pyschopath, the Stalker & the "Prince Charming"

Welcome! This blog is all about a really nasty "man" I met on an adult dating site. I created this blog because the "man" just carries on unchecked and nobody will come forward to press charges with me. The police apparently can't help until he does something violent? Really?

I know of at least 5 other women he has harassed and stalked this way. Please help spread the word to all your female friends so that he can be exposed for the sick, bitter twisted freak he is!

This is Ruben

a.k.a. "Interman / DaDude / QuasiDude / QuasiDaDude / TryMe / Commander / TAC"

Ruben operates out of Boksburg, South Africa

Ruben seeks to make contact with women on dating sites by sending a friendly message much like this:

I ignored him up until this point but then he used a 3rd party to do the dirty work for him:

Curiosity got the better of me and I stupidly added him to whatsapp messenger. He started off with the classic "I am so sad, ugly and lonely... please be my friend" approach.

Photos were shared, and once he had a photo of his me he suddenly launched into the "You are so fake! You are wasting my time! Prove that it's you..." I thought this was amusing at first so I humoured him. Apparently the whole world really is out to get Ruben and this is the reason he is so suspicious! Who knew?

The Mind Games

I sent a few more photos over the next couple of days and still he insisted on voice notes to prove that I am actually a young woman, aged 24. He calmed down a bit, paid a few compliments, then without provocation suddenly exploded once again. He blocked me and ignored me for a day or so before removing the block.

Suddenly out of the blue he sent a nude photo of himself and then demanded one in return. I politely declined and this is earned me another psycho tirade. I was now branded a "snot nose" who is playing "bullshit mindgames" with him. At this point I called him a psycho asshole and told him to get lost. The following message appeared:

So, not only is our intrepid scumbag a total asshole towards women, he is also a stinking rascist as well! After that message he promptly he blocked me for the second time.

No more contact right? Wrong!

The very next morning there is a video clip of him performing oral sex on a large woman with the text "Ek weet hoe om poesie te eet soos in my video, as jy belangstel wys my dan hoe jy piel suig" Translated: "I know how to eat pussy as you can see in my video. if you are insterested show me how you sick dick"

I will not post the video here as it is quite explicit.

Creepy Phone Calls

I keep getting calls now from private numbers - mostly after hours. Nobody speaks but I can hear feint muffled sounds in the background. The last call was at 3:15 this morning (6th January). I am going to have to change my number! :(

I called my service provider and they will not disclose who made the call without a case number from the police. Sounds like they really care about their customers safety, don't they! :(

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Where to from here? Any other ladies interested in coming forward with their stories?

To be continued...