The Pyschopath, the Stalker & the "Prince Charming"

Welcome! This blog is all about a really nasty "man" I met on an adult dating site. I created this blog because the "man" just carries on unchecked and nobody will come forward to press charges with me. The police apparently can't help until he does something violent? Really?

I know of at least 5 other women he has harassed and stalked this way. Please help spread the word to all your female friends so that he can be exposed for the sick, bitter twisted freak he is!

This is Ruben

a.k.a. "Interman / DaDude / QuasiDude / QuasiDaDude / TryMe / Commander / TAC"

Ruben operates out of Boksburg, South Africa

Ruben seeks to make contact with women on dating sites by sending a friendly message much like this:

I ignored him up until this point but then he used a 3rd party to do the dirty work for him:

Curiosity got the better of me and I stupidly added him to whatsapp messenger. He started off with the classic "I am so sad, ugly and lonely... please be my friend" approach.

Photos were shared, and once he had a photo of his me he suddenly launched into the "You are so fake! You are wasting my time! Prove that it's you..." I thought this was amusing at first so I humoured him. Apparently the whole world really is out to get Ruben and this is the reason he is so suspicious! Who knew?

The Mind Games

I sent a few more photos over the next couple of days and still he insisted on voice notes to prove that I am actually a young woman, aged 24. He calmed down a bit, paid a few compliments, then without provocation suddenly exploded once again. He blocked me and ignored me for a day or so before removing the block.

Suddenly out of the blue he sent a nude photo of himself and then demanded one in return. I politely declined and this is earned me another psycho tirade. I was now branded a "snot nose" who is playing "bullshit mindgames" with him. At this point I called him a psycho asshole and told him to get lost. The following message appeared:

So, not only is our intrepid scumbag a total asshole towards women, he is also a stinking rascist as well! After that message he promptly he blocked me for the second time.

No more contact right? Wrong!

The very next morning there is a video clip of him performing oral sex on a large woman with the text "Ek weet hoe om poesie te eet soos in my video, as jy belangstel wys my dan hoe jy piel suig" Translated: "I know how to eat pussy as you can see in my video. if you are insterested show me how you sick dick"

I will not post the video here as it is quite explicit.

Creepy Phone Calls

I keep getting calls now from private numbers - mostly after hours. Nobody speaks but I can hear feint muffled sounds in the background. The last call was at 3:15 this morning (6th January). I am going to have to change my number! :(

I called my service provider and they will not disclose who made the call without a case number from the police. Sounds like they really care about their customers safety, don't they! :(

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Where to from here? Any other ladies interested in coming forward with their stories?

To be continued...